I'm still enjoying quality time with my almost three-month old, delightful baby daughter. So there's nothing to report yet on the WAHM (that's work at home mum) front.
Well, maybe there's a couple of things: If you can afford to take a few months off, then do it. Little ones change so quickly and spending lots of time with them is a lovely thing. On the other hand, if you have to make money, make the most of this time when they sleep so much. Either way, don't feel bad about your choice.
As a freelance writer, getting the balance right can be a bit tricky when you start out. While you are not making much money yet, it often feels like you should be working constantly. If you do, it will wear you out and you might lose your passion for writing.
It is important to remember that you need time to relax, do something you enjoy. You need to have a life outside of writing if you want to have a variety of things to write about.
Don't feel guilty about going out with friends for dinner or to a movie. Take pen and paper to take notes and write a review later (check with your friends first if it's okay, though, you don't want to ruin dinner).
Take a course that will make you an expert in another niche. The more expert knowledge you have, the bigger the writing opportunities.
As a writer, reading counts as career development - even if it's fiction. It's important to see how other people use language and tell a story. Non-fiction writers need to be story-tellers too, only their stories need to be based on facts.
Many people have a romantic notion of being a freelancer that bears little resemblance to the truth. There's the old cliche that as a freelancer, you can wear your pyjamas all day. Many fantasize about working in the sun. And too many people think that you can get away with working for five hours tops and then recline to the sun lounger.
Freelancing reality comes in many different versions, but more often than not clothes, a desk and long working hours are part of it.
If you want to write relevant, informative articles you have to do your research. You may have to talk to people or experience the subject of your article first-hand so you can make it come alive for the reader. Facing the outside world in my pyjamas? I don't think so.
Has anyone ever tried working outside, on the balcony or in a sunny café, maybe? Then you'll know that the sun makes it often difficult to see the pixels on your screen, and wind can wreak havoc with your notes if you scribbled them down on loose paper. Having your workspace is much more productive.
I don't know about you, but I like to have a certain standard of living. If I only worked five hours a day, I wouldn't make enough to even afford the rent in London, let alone eat. No, I still work full time as an employee and then another four or five hours freelance on top of that. Whenever a longer freelance project needs more than five hours a day of my attention, I use some of my annual leave. When you start out as a freelancer, chances are you'll work more than before.
I'm not trying to discourage anyone - far from it. I just want you to be realistic about the freelance adventure. You'll have to invest something in the beginning to get yourself in the position where the well-paid jobs are the rule rather than the exception. You want to be your own boss, don't you?
Fact is - sometimes I'm in my pjs all day, the wind dies down and I get everything done by lunchtime.